85 Flirty Questions to Text Your Boo (and Make Them Blush Instantly)

If you’ve ever wanted to turn up the heat over text without sounding too cheesy, flirty questions are your secret weapon. They’re playful, fun, and perfect for keeping the spark alive—even from miles away. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or just started dating, these spicy little prompts are the kind of content your Pinterest audience can’t scroll past. Not only are they irresistible for screenshotting and sharing, but they also make for excellent pin-worthy material—think dreamy pastel backgrounds, cute couples, and bold text overlays. Ready to boost engagement and fire up those DMs? Let’s dive into the ultimate collection of flirty questions to text your SO and turn texting into foreplay.

❤️ 85 Flirty Questions to Text Your Boo (and Make Them Blush Instantly)

  1. What’s one thing you’ve been dying to do with me?
  2. If I kissed you right now, what would you do?
  3. Do you like it when I tease you?
  4. What’s the naughtiest dream you’ve had about me?
  5. What do you think I’m wearing right now?
  6. What’s your favorite part of my body?
  7. Want to play a flirty question game with me?
  8. If we were alone right now, what would happen?
  9. What’s the first thing you’d do if we were in bed together?
  10. Do you think I’m a good kisser?
  11. What’s something you wish I’d do more often?
  12. How fast can you get here right now?
  13. Can you describe what you’d do to me in 5 words?
  14. Have you ever daydreamed about me?
  15. Would you rather cuddle or kiss right now?
  16. What do I do that drives you wild?
  17. Want to have a secret code just for us?
  18. What would we do on a naughty weekend getaway?
  19. What’s your favorite time to flirt—morning, afternoon, or night?
  20. Do I make your heart race or your mind wander?
  21. What would you do if I whispered in your ear right now?
  22. How do you want me to say goodnight tonight?
  23. What outfit of mine do you love the most (or least)?
  24. What emoji reminds you of me?
  25. Want to send each other flirty dares?
  26. If I showed up at your door right now, what would you do?
  27. What would you do if I bit my lip and stared at you?
  28. If I asked for a kiss, would you make it last?
  29. Do I make your heart skip or your thoughts stutter?
  30. What’s the most unexpected place you’d want to kiss me?
  31. What’s something you’d whisper to me in the dark?
  32. Want to plan a flirty bucket list together?
  33. Do you like it slow or spontaneous?
  34. What’s your favorite pet name for me (and why)?
  35. Want to FaceTime me and play 20 flirty questions?
  36. If I told you I’m in the mood… what would you say?
  37. Want to describe our perfect date… in bed?
  38. What’s something totally innocent that turns you on?
  39. Do you think about me when you’re trying not to?
  40. Would you rather kiss me under the stars or under the covers?
  41. What’s your favorite “us” moment?
  42. If we were a couple in a movie, what kind of scene would we have?
  43. Want to send me a voice note telling me your favorite thing about me?
  44. If I wrote a flirty poem, would you read it or act it out?
  45. What’s one thing you want to try (but haven’t told me yet)?
  46. What’s something I do that makes your brain short-circuit?
  47. Want to start a shared spicy playlist?
  48. What nickname do you secretly want me to call you?
  49. Which emoji would you use to describe kissing me?
  50. What would we be doing if we weren’t texting right now?
  51. What do you imagine me doing when I’m quiet?
  52. Want to have a flirty texting marathon with no rules?
  53. If I were a dessert, how would you eat me?
  54. What would you do if I sent you a “come over” text?
  55. What color do you imagine I look best in (with nothing else on)?
  56. What part of me would you kiss first, slowly?
  57. Want to write a secret code language together?
  58. How would you tease me if we were on a couch alone?
  59. Do I make you nervous in the best way?
  60. What do you dream of us doing together next?
  61. If I kissed you suddenly, how would you react?
  62. What do you want me to text you after midnight?
  63. Want to play “Truth or Tease”?
  64. If I dared you to kiss me for 60 seconds, would you stop on time?
  65. What’s the one compliment I give that gets you every time?
  66. Want to role-play as strangers in a coffee shop?
  67. What would you do if I sent a flirty pic right now?
  68. What’s your ultimate fantasy about us?
  69. Do you like it when I make the first move?
  70. What’s your favorite place on me to touch (or be touched)?
  71. Want to tell me a flirty secret right now?
  72. How would you flirt with me if we had just met?
  73. What’s your signature kiss move?
  74. What if I told you I’m not wearing pants?
  75. What should I whisper to you next time we hug?
  76. Want to plan a sexy scavenger hunt?
  77. What’s one flirty thing you wish I did more?
  78. Can you describe the way I smell?
  79. Do you like it when I take control—or when you do?
  80. What’s something totally random that makes you want me?
  81. If we had a “no holding back” night, what would happen?
  82. Would you rather flirt in public or whisper naughty things in private?
  83. What’s the hottest thing about me, honestly?
  84. What song reminds you of how we vibe?
  85. Want to end this convo with a wink or a dare?

Pinterest loves shareable, snackable, and slightly steamy content—and this list checks all the boxes. Whether you’re creating a pin carousel, texting template post, or a cheeky mini-blog, these 85 flirty questions are made to spark conversation and ignite connection. They’re ideal for creators looking to blend romantic aesthetics with real engagement. After all, people aren’t just saving pins—they’re sending them. So load up your Canva, grab those blushing emojis, and turn this flirty goldmine into content your audience will fall head over heels for.